Its Not your fault

It’s not Your Fault

Silently when the night turns dark, she gazes though the sky and begins to search.

Her eyes roll up and down and people begin to wonder why,

After a brief moment of silence, they realize

It’s her little Babe in the sky she looks for.

The one who barely survived in her womb for months,

But will remain in the corner of her heart forever.

She wipes her tears and smiles and sits with her family and looks all fine.

They knew it was hard for her and begin to murmur, Why God Why?

When days drifts into months, her heart begins to settle and so does her mind.

She begins to gather the broken pieces

And take a step to stride ahead.

Once again there is laughter and fun

There is joy but, in her heart, somewhere she struggled with the burden of guilt and pondered Why?

Was she not good enough to carry her babe,

When she saw other mothers carrying around their children proudly?

Months passed into years and once again her heart yearned for a little babe.

And as an answer to her prayer

Her womb was blessed again.

She was excited and happy, so was her spouse and family

As words of caution began to flow from everywhere,

She minded her thoughts and words and decided for this little one she would give her best.

Months began to pass, and her hopes swelled

She knew this time it was all well

She began to dream about the days ahead and could not wait to hold her little one in her arms

Every day she whispered a prayer

Then like a blast of tornado

Her stomach began to swirl

And she cried aloud in pain

And within few hours once again her little one was dead.

Her world came crashing down and so were her senses

She began to wonder what she had done to deserve this.

Was it all her fault?

Two of her little babies had bidden goodbye even before a gentle hello.

She could not even hold them in her arms

Or proudly spell out their names.

She thought it was the end and she longed for no new beginning.

Family stood by her

And her husband gently cared.

But who could heal the bruises in her heart and the hope she had lost?

Slowly people began to point fingers

And some of their words were louder than the thunder.

Day and night, she cried and wondered why?

She looked for comfort in different ways, but alas the pain in her heart was spread.

Near and dear ones said it was just a fetus

But she knew they were more than part of her uterus.

She began to seek the Almighty and began to look around

And that’s when she realized no, she was not the only one

She began to understand many around her had lost their little ones in the womb

But chose to remain quiet and swallow the pain.

That’s when she realized staying quiet was no one’s gain.

Because it was never their fault.

She combed her hair and washed her face

She knelt down and sought God’s grace.

And stepped outside with faith.

Miscarrying was not her choice

But it was part of a devil’s plan.

Blaming herself would do no good

And she decided to face.

She spoke loudly about losing her babe

And told to the world she was still a mom

No matter the months she carried her babies in her womb

She was still privileged to carry and love them.

She decided to live again, with joy and hope.

She knew her God was all powerful and one day her home and her heart would be full.

Her tears she wiped forever

To her despair she bid farewell

With friends and family, she began to mingle

And her smile began to sparkle.

She knew it was not the end

And decided to enter a new door

She knew being a mother had nothing to do with what is seen

But was about what is felt

Today she lives with hope and faith

Hope for a beautiful future ahead.

She stands by those who have gone through her pain

And shows them it’s not the end.

Once in a while she stills looks up at the sky

Plants invisible kisses on the cheeks of her little boys

And smiles with tears in her eyes.

Hoping to meet them one day

And hold them tight.